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That was all in my head, the whole stuff it thing was because i really wanted to kiss her passionately and i couldnt make up my mind, do it - dont do it... i dont know how to explain it any other way so im sorry if this at all offened you or anyone…
12 minutes ago
Thanks for your reply Chrissy---- I never thought for a moment that his not contacting me back was out of respect for me. I have been deeply hurt by his seeming to be able to walk away without a second thought....interesting change to think that I h…
16 minutes ago
I saw my therapist and I told her this whole incident with Sandra and Jesse bothered me. She asked why. I told her it's because he f*cked up! She's a beautiful, kind, intelligent, funny, compassionate, self-made woman and he threw it all away for se…
30 minutes ago
I love Maya Angelou. I love her books. She's such a smart woman. And this statement is so true.
37 minutes ago
No phone credit lol
38 minutes ago
I just want to point out that this was a concert i bought tickets for HER for her birthday last year just b4 we broke up... all night the thing she did most was play with the necklace i bought her wen we started dating... she was wearing 2 different…
39 minutes ago
Too make a long story short I was dating a guy although looking back it seemed like we spent more time apart due to the fact that he was always blowing hot and cold air. Time after Time he would say and do mean things rather it be standing me up or…
40 minutes ago
OH no! Hpy2bme! My recent ex-EUM told me the same thing... that was the demise of our break up. He "felt" so guilt-ridden that he had lied to me because I was so proud of me never have cheated on any of my exes (although there were moments that I wa…
40 minutes ago
Well something just happened.I just checked my email and there was a email from him.He said he got my texts and texted back(I havent got them) and have got no reply so he wasnt understanding what was going on much.He also said that is fine to text a…
46 minutes ago
Marge, don't think for a minute that it's nice when they contact you. Sure, for a minute you get your ego stroked and feel good that they are thinking of you. But in reality, it's the considerate thing to do to not try and contact you, especially li…
58 minutes ago
Keep strong girl, you kept NC for 8 months, you have shown real strength! You just had a little fallback.
59 minutes ago
Good thinking!!!!
1 hour ago
Thanks for the suport girls.I have calmed down now and Im seriously thinking about going back NC.Yes I enjoyed my chatt with him and would like it could continue maybe but to be honest all that is doing me no good.Just look how I have been since sun…
1 hour ago
Marie: if you feel comfortable sharing I would like to hear about you experience... I am on the verge of making contact again and need to here someone testify if you will. :)
1 hour ago
Yes, congrats sounds like your coming around to the final stretch it's nothing like being able to think of the people that hurt you the most and feel nothing. I'm happy for you keep up the good work.
1 hour ago
I'm really sorry but I really urge you to hang in there and go back to nc. Awhile back I broke nc and I ended up really really hurt and humiliated. The way i use to feel I wouldn't wish that on anyone. I really urge to go back to nc because i don't…
1 hour ago

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Way down the line

7 months NC and now this... Seeking advice from the opposite sex 36 Replies

Good morning/evening Girls (and guys?)   Im not sure if this is the correct place to post this but im in dire need of some advice/translation...   A little bit of a back story of myself, My relations…

Started by Way down the line. Last reply by Way down the line 14 minutes ago.

Chrissy

my weakest time.... 12 Replies

I'm posting now rather than text messaging my ex in hopes the urge will pass. This time of night is always the hardest for me. We both worked 2nd shift at the same place and lived together and this t…

Started by Chrissy. Last reply by Marge 18 minutes ago.

Sherry

Red flags 17 Replies

I'm a huge fan of Sandra Bullock.  She hardly has any "drama" being that she's constantly in the spotlight - life of a celebrity.  The only drama that I'd seen about her was when she married Jesse Ja…

Started by Sherry. Last reply by Sherry 32 minutes ago.

Anusha

I did it again 22 Replies

I couldnt resist the urge to talk to him so I just texted him.I said "Want to chatt again? Im online now :) " I sent it 24 minutes ago and until now he havent got online.I not even sure if he got it.…

Started by Anusha. Last reply by marie 42 minutes ago.

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Getting Past Your Anger & Getting Out of Stuck

Your experiences in relationships can often have quite a profound effect and this is usually demonstrated by the impact on our mental and emotional state, as well as how we conduct our lives – the longer it takes to get over the situation is the more it demonstrates either the magnitude of the experience and/or [...]
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Understanding what makes you angry & why in relationships & post breakup – part two

In part one of understanding what makes you angry and why when you’re in relationships or post breakup, I talked about how we get angry because we feel frustrated that things are not going our way or that we are uncared for/unloved and disrespected, and that this filters down into feeling undervalued, feeling taken advantage [...]
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Understanding what makes you angry & why in relationships & post breakup – part one

Following on from my previous post about being afraid to feel angry in relationships and post breakup, where I explained how you may feel that anger is a bad thing, or struggle to express it, or believe that someone else’s feelings may take precedence over yours invalidating your own feelings, I wanted to open up [...]
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Being Afraid To Feel Angry In Relationships or Post Breakup

A couple of days ago, I shared my thoughts about epiphany relationships and moments- relationships and events within or out of them, that have a lasting impact and end up shining a light on ourselves and our actions and eventually bringing about positive, lasting change. Sometimes when we experience these epiphanies, they’re triggered by anger, [...]
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Getting Your Wake Up Call: Relationship Epiphanies

A few years back I wrote about when you have an epiphany relationship: “a relationship that caused you to have a sudden clarity and insight into that particular relationship, yourself, your actions, and potentially all of your relationships. There is a defining moment within this relationship where everything changed for you and suddenly you couldn’t escape [...]
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marie

Somebody Take me to Rehab

Hello users,


In my previous blog I spoke about my obsession with checking his online profiles. There are days that I spend hours staring at his profile waiting for an update of whats going on in his life. I think subconciously I am waiting for an update where he's apologizes, admits all his wrongs, and begs me to take him back (silly, and far fetched I know). I have concluded that my obsession is an addiction, and I am treating it as such. A few weeks ago I decided to start cognitive t

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Posted by marie on March 17, 2010 at 11:30am — 8 Comments

marie

Physically Free but not mentally

Hello users,


I have been in no contact for alittle of a year. Most people would think that this great but the problem is that I still obsess over him and check his online profiles constantly to see what is going on with him to stay connected to him. Although I am not friends with him on these sites I am still able to view his information. I get so upset and down when I see him talking about other girls and seeing how he broadcast his love. Although I haven't seen him in so long , he st

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Posted by marie on March 16, 2010 at 12:42pm — 7 Comments

Kristen

He emailed me, yuck!

I haven’t been on this site much recently… been super busy with school and travelling. My ex AC emailed me while I was travelling for a professional symposium and it really upset me! I had blocked his email and thought that he couldn’t contact me but somehow his email got through. Unfortunately I read it, should have just deleted. It was very short, just asking how I was and if I missed hi

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Posted by Kristen on March 15, 2010 at 8:00am — 4 Comments

Anusha

Concetrating on yourself is hard

Ok I have been trying to figure myself out and take care of my happiness but it has been hard.I dont know what I want and I change my mind easialy so is very frustating and confusing.I have a hard time making decisions,I take forever to chose and more I think about it more confused I get.Plus I usualy change my mind after had decided something so it just fells like Im going back and forth all the time.Is like I said before,being on a crosroad and having to chose right or left but how to chose if… Continue

Posted by Anusha on March 8, 2010 at 2:19pm — 20 Comments

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